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Baby Showers |
You may notice that while lots of folks are eager to throw a party for the first child's events, but offers for the second and third chid are not so frequent. There is nothing wrong with the family coming together with close friends to throw a baby shower. |
The shower begins with the offer to throw a shower. The one who offers designs the parameters for the party:
The honoree will be asked for a guest list. Include the guests name and address with city and zip code. If you have a registry provide that information to your hostess for the invitation. I am constantly amazed that the recipient of that generous offer would presume to tell the one throwing the party where to hold the event, how many to invite, what to serve. One must consider the ability of those who offer to hold the event and ALWAYS express gratitude and DO NOT BE DEMANDING! That is the height of rudeness. The honoree should bring a gift (however small) to the hostesses (cute cocktail napkins or tea towel, etc. are never amiss) and later write a thank you note. |
Thank you notes are definitely a requirement when one receives gifts at parties such as this. And, particularly to the hostess. One surely writes a thank you note to the hostesses. Even one's mother, sister, sister-in-law, etc. Courtesy to family is as important as to friends! |
This is the invitation to our son and daughter-in-love/law's shower for their first child. |
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This is a sample of the food served at these events. Brownies, petit fors (from Rolen's, my favorite bakery in Dothan, Alabama), punch, coffee and water, finger sandwiches (thin sliced bread with olive and cream cheese, chicken salad, cherries and cream cheese or other fillings) and nuts or other salty items. Plastic and paper suffice, but some folks like to use their silver as you can see on the far right. |
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Red Strawberry Punch You will need at least three 3-quart plastic containers to freeze and store the juice base. 5 small packages strawberry Jello 1 large can pink grapefruit juice 2 large cans of pineapple juice 1 1/2 cups lemon juice 1 can frozen fruit punch 5 boxes (1 bag) frozen strawberries 5 cups sugar 1 bottle almond extract 4 liter bottles of Sprite
Mix all ingredients except Sprite for the juice base. Divide
among the plastic containers and freeze for at least two nights.
At least 1/2 hour prior to serving, place fruit base block in punch
bowl. Slowly add a bottle of Sprite. Break ice block until
punch is slushy.
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Come prepared to celebrate life and friendship together. |